Feedback Week 3
Purple flowers on Flickr Praise, Not Presence: Hot to Cultivate a Healthy Relationship with Achievement by Maria Popova is an article describing the dangers of too much praise. She cites Stephen Grosz, professor at the University College London, who takes inspiration from Carol Dweck. We watched her videos earlier in the course. Popova summarizes their research by explaining that praising a child can actually lower one’s self confidence and suffocate their will to try. If a child has gotten praise such as “you’re so clever”, they may not feel the need to think any further, because they have already done well. If they are told that their artwork is “the best”, why feel the need to create a new piece of art if their work is already so good? Or, they may feel like they could never hope to create something as good as their “best” work, and so they don’t try. Minimizing the amount of praise that we give children will make the times that they do receive praise more meaningfu...